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A community for those who play with heart

Transformative experiences Authentic connections A culture built on consent and trust

Crafting exquisite play parties since 2011

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How to Join Top Floor

We invite those who resonate with our values and approach. The path is personal, thoughtful, and rooted in mutual fit.

Submit your application
Share who you are, what draws you to us, and how you imagine contributing to the energy of the room.
Video conversation
We invite select applicants to a brief video conversation where we get to know each other and ensure mutual alignment.
Invitation to join
Applicants whose intentions harmonize with the community receive a formal invitation to join Top Floor.

What Membership Includes

Membership is how you stay connected to the world we curate. Event tickets are purchased separately so you can design the experiences that fit your rhythm.

The community

Access our members-only digital salon, ongoing conversation salons, and invitations to every play party we host.

Membership & tickets

Membership starts at $35/month. Event tickets typically begin around $250+ per person. Your membership is complimentary through the week following your first party.

Who We Welcome

Members

NYC locals and frequent travelers ready to participate regularly and cultivate lasting connections.

Guests

Visitors joining us for a single weekend or special occasion. Share your timing in the application so we can host you well.

If you're visiting New York only once, you can still join us as a guest.

About Signature Weekends

Each month we create an immersive pairing: a Friday mixer to arrive gently and a Saturday play party crafted for exquisite exploration.

The experience

Friday evenings offer a hosted mixer to meet fellow guests; Saturday unfolds in a play party designed for trust, agency, and delight.

Pricing philosophy

Ticket prices vary by theme and venue, and are always priced per individual-never tiered by gender or relationship status-reflecting our commitment to equity.

Accessibility

We're committed to keeping Top Floor accessible. Volunteer opportunities are available to help offset ticket costs because financial diversity enriches the community.

90%

of guests become members after their first party.

What Members Are Saying

The level of care and intentionality here is unlike anything I've experienced. Every gathering feels safe, welcoming, and transformative.

- Marcus, Member since 2023

I've found my people here. The community is exactly what I was looking for - authentic, respectful, and genuinely fun.

- Alex, Member since 2024

It is much more than just a play party... it is a community that enthusiastically welcomed me with open arms.

- Sofia, Member since 2025

Application

We review every application personally and welcome only those who align with the culture we protect.

Your application is private and will never be shared beyond Top Floor leadership.

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About You

Name *

Share the name you'd like us to use when we speak with you.

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Email *

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Phone *

Used for critical communications, event logistics, and membership access.

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Applying as *

Single Couple

Gender *

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Optional, yet helpful for understanding your presence in creative communities.

Sending your application...

After you submit, watch your inbox for our reply. We typically respond within 24 hours. If invited, you can schedule your interview as soon as the same day. We never share your information outside the membership committee.

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