Signature Weekend
Our main event. A full night of dance, connection, and play across three penthouse suites. Designed for members who want depth, exploration, and the vibrance of a full community night.
The vibe rules the party
Every decision we make supports a warm, generous, alive room where people feel safe enough to explore.
Thoughtfulness
Nothing is accidental. From how we welcome you in the lobby to how we design the suites, we think through the details so you never have to hold the container alone.
No takers
We curate out takers. We look for guests who bring generosity, curiosity, and care into shared spaces. When the room is free of takers, everyone can offer more.
Character over status
Inside our doors, what matters is your character, not your follower count or job title. No VIP sections. No incentives for specific genders. A level field elevates the vibe.
A living community, not just a night
Top Floor is active every day. More than fifty WhatsApp groups carry the energy of the community between events, with thousands of messages each month across conversations about connection, play, style, identity, friendship, and the things that make our members who they are.
People share resources, plan outings, explore curiosity, celebrate each other, ask real questions, and weave relationships that deepen over time. The warmth you feel at the parties is the same warmth that fills the community.
A few of the spaces inside Top Floor: Connection circles. Style and fashion. Queer and bi curious threads. Kink and BDSM conversations. Outdoor and fitness groups. Creative and maker spaces. Pets and home life. Parents network. Spa and bathhouse enthusiasts. Travel and culture. And “Other Events,” where members share the best things happening in the city.
Belonging is central to Top Floor. The parties are simply where we gather in person, alongside smaller gatherings and outings that keep us connected all year.
What your evening can feel like
A Top Floor night unfolds in a way that lets you ease in, find your people, and follow your own rhythm. We design the night like a creative collaboration, setting the conditions for flow, connection, and presence throughout the room.
Arriving
- You enter the hotel lobby and share a simple password. Staff downstairs never see names.
- You are escorted to the elevator and hear a short consent and safety orientation.
- Greeters welcome you upstairs, show you where to put your coat and phone, and point out the serenity room, balconies, and bars.
Settling in
- You start with conversation, drinks, and light food.
- The room fills with warm, curious, open people.
- Layers come off naturally as the space softens.
Music and movement
- DJs shape the night with sensual, flowing sets.
- Many events include live accompaniment like saxophone, trumpet, or electric violin.
- You can dance, flirt, talk, or simply enjoy the energy.
Play, if you choose
- Play can happen almost anywhere within the suites, including the bedrooms and dance floors.
- You talk about desires and boundaries before anything begins.
- Guardians are available to support the flow of the space and a strong consent culture.
Landing and aftercare
- You can take breaks, cuddle, hydrate, or settle into softer areas whenever you need.
- Aftercare happens throughout the night, not just at the end.
- The event runs late, and people play, rest, and reconnect in waves.
Four ways the night can take shape
All events share the same backbone of consent, care, and thoughtful curation. Each has its own flavor.
MARKED
A kink forward gathering for members and vetted guests who understand etiquette and consent culture. Same care as Signature Weekend with more intensity and edge.
BI SENSUAL
A night centering bi and bi curious experiences. Warm, playful, and fluid, designed for people who love spacious room for curiosity.
Other gatherings
Boat and Spa play parties, rope workshops, and smaller focused events that help members explore in more intimate settings.
Who thrives here
- People who value depth, kindness, and honest communication
- Guests who like talking about boundaries before things heat up
- Curious explorers who prefer presence over performance
- Humans who respect privacy and contribute to a clean, mutual vibe
Is this you? If reading this feels familiar rather than aspirational, you will likely feel at home here.
How people talk about the night
“What an amazing, magical night. It was our first Top Floor event and the vibe made it easy to ease in. Everyone was welcoming and warm.
“Every Top Floor night has been incredible, but last Saturday was next level. I left with a full heart and I am still basking in the afterglow.
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Ready to step into the elevator
If this way of playing and relating feels right to you, we would love to meet you. We will walk you through the next steps.