How educators, journalists, and podcasters describe Top Floor.
Top Floor has been written about and discussed by people who care deeply about sexuality, consent, and culture. This page collects a selection of those reflections, so you can see how others describe the community and the space we hold.
Sex researcher and NYU professor
All in all, I'd give this party an A+. My return to Top Floor was everything I hoped for and then some.
I was pleasantly surprised to experience an environment where people were fully present and engaged.
The vetting process is thorough and creates a safe and respectful environment.
Sexual wellness educator
Kenneth Play has highlighted Top Floor in his work as an example of a thoughtfully designed erotic space where consent, communication, and community are taken seriously.
Kink and consent educator
Rina has collaborated with Top Floor as a facilitator and educator, bringing her focus on emotional presence, kink, and consent-informed play into the space.
Safer Sex and Diverse Play Parties
A conversation about sexual health, inclusive play spaces, and how Top Floor designs for consent and diversity.
Sex, Lies, and Play Party Secrets with Top Floor Club
A deep dive into the art of erotic gathering, consent, and the stories behind building Top Floor as a high trust erotic community.
Upscale play, real connection, and consent-forward design
Elle and Vee talk with Alain about creating an upscale play party and community free of pretense, and how belonging, sensuality, and psychological safety come together at Top Floor.
The diversity was heartening, and the freedom was intoxicating. I was hooked.
Highly selective but not in superficial ways.
I was witness to a tiny, special world, where women were not afraid of being labeled for exploring their sexuality, and so felt free to pursue new connections to their fullest.
I felt safer and sexier than I have ever felt.
What a sexual utopia this is.
Beyond the play, it was hands down one of the best NYC parties I had been to.
It felt liberating, almost instantly.
I felt embraced by the entire room all night long.
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